Meet Angelique Pellegrino The Angelic Transformer

My life's story would make a brilliant Netflix series as it contains so many juicy parts which would make great 'cliff hangers'. To give you an idea... The following movies: 

'The Godfather", "Shades of Grey", "Underbellies" and "The Gigolo" eat your heart out! 

This accompanied with having two evils sisters in law who took my palliative husband out of hospital days before his passing so that they could benefit from the government payouts and clean my bank account, leaving us homeless... And that's just the tip of the iceberg.

So yes, I walked the talk!

In order for you to understand the depth and complexities of my life and show you how to overcome any challenges and heal yourself in the most timely manner, you will have to come on a journey with me.

My personal quest started when I was about 15. I was at school, one day when the teacher declared that we only use 10 to 15% of our brain; that even dolphins used more... (By the way today we think it's more like 5%.) My instant reaction was to think "so what the hell are we doing? The answers are obviously in the 85%."

So I spent my life understanding the 85% as I love to understand everything. I love psychology because that is its purpose: once you understand why a person behaviours a certain way, than you can help them make some changes. My journey started on the spiritual side where I became attuned to Reiki and studied the different religions before I studied counselling just to see where the medical system was at. 

Today the two have connected at the hips, it's called neuroscience and quantum healing. I am well and truly on top of the bridge, between psychology and spirituality. 

My mother's tongue is that funny Swiss language and not it's not the same as German... But as my father got a job in the French part of the country I had to go to school in a different language to teach me to adapt... 

This was a huge challenge on top of not knowing anyone... It was compulsory to learn German and I chose to learn Italian as we had so many Italians in the country and loved the country.

English was by far the hardest language to learn as it was such a tongue twister. To nail it properly I spent 6 months in a Jewish family as an 'Au Pair' in London. That was another eye opener. The discipline of eating in different colour dishes depending on the meat blew my little mind. But when the father of the two boys aged under 10 brought someone home while his wife and family left on holiday the day before him, that made me wonder even more...

I was petite and very shy. My mother came from a family of 16 children... yes from another era with no TV. Imagine the size of the family dinner table and the team work going on...

I was born and raised Catholic and feared God. In fact I was so petrified to accidentally do something wrong as God would see me and send me to hell forever and ever... My father was a dictator but that was his way of coping and protecting us as he wanted to upgrade our lives to what he had... I lived on eggshells!

Leaving my cushy government job in Switzerland to go and explore the world in the hope to find the answers was very scary at first especially as there were no mobile phones or internet. However it has allowed me to discover a wild variety of cultures, religions and understand their differences. It made me realise that my parent's truth which was so black and white was not everbody's truth and there was a lot of shades of greys... (Punt intended) I ended up travelling for 3 years before settling in Australia, some 40 years ago.

I fell in love with Sydney and was in a relationship with a so called 'Social Light' for 5 years before I realised that I had been taken advantage off, yet again. And boy! Do I have a super juicy and insane story there...

Just before returning permanently to Switzerland after the break-up I met my 'Knight in Shining Armours'. He was the extreme opposite to my ex who was so fake and to myself: I was the book worm and he was the street kid. We married soon after meeting as when you know, you know. Not only was my husband always authentic, he had a knack with people that was second to none and EVERY woman that ever met us thought that they would be a better fit for him... Ha Ha Ha... Little did they know.

We were blessed with a daughter soon to be followed by a son. As an Italian, he was also a great chef so pasta and music was always flowing.

Unfortunately something didn't gel. I couldn't quite put my finger on it for years. He just kept having so much "Bad Luck" all the time. At one stage I even thought that he had been cursed by an old Italian mamma...

Seven years into my marriage, he finally opened up: he had been raped by an uncle when he was 11 years old. That made so much sense: he kept getting 'abused' again and again because it was in his vibrations. AND when he discovered women he went ballistic!

Usually hurt people hurt other but not my husband, he had another way to release the mounting pressure of his permanent pain that I won't discuss here. You can find more of my story in the following 4 best sellers available on Amazon through the button below. Note all proceeds go to various charities.

The roller coaster of my married life was intense to say the least. Most other women would have left him. No, he did not have an affair with another woman. He had an affair with the needle. But because at 3 years of age I suffered terribly from abandonment when I was fully burnt and left in hospital as my mother had been told to leave and also had to attend to my sister, there was no way that I would abandon him. I hope you understand the correlation and see how everything happens for a reason.

Furthermore I always look at the ripple effect a decision would cause. As an example look at the story from Hanna Clark who had 3 kids, here in Brisbane. She left her husband. On day as she started the car after picking up the kids from school, her car caught on fire and they were all incinerated!!! The husband thought 'if I can't have them no one else will'.

I am not saying that my husband would have done so but who knows? He would get really aggressive and threatening when ever the pain mounted and he needed a fix...

On top of the fact that I was well aware from observing other people that if I had left him, I would only attract someone like him again because it was in my vibration and it was my karmic debt.

I learnt so much from my 20 years of marriage to a Master narcissistic. Things that you would never learn in Universities. For example the way he would play people. I watched him once spread a rumour... He actually only implied something, or at least didn't deny it when questioned so the other person just ran with it, exaggerating it completely... and everyone believed it as they loved gossip even though it was not true at all.  

I learnt many things that actually were very valuable in sales. I learnt about unconditional love. I learnt about boundaries. I learnt that everything happens for a reason and to accept the things you can't change. And of course, I learnt to dig deeper within myself and make the most with what I had. This in turn made become very resourceful and creative. And needless to say that my experience is only going to be help you save your valuable time with your healing process.

At the end of the day, I honestly would do it all over again because I gained so. much insight and wisdom. One of my favourite saying is: YOU WIN SOME... YOU LOOSE SOME...

Count your blessings! Life begins at the end of your comfort zones.